Domination Tips for Women
Effective Domming isn't just about telling someone what to do in a firm voice. It is about having the appearance, presence and confidence that makes your submissive interested, comfortable, scared, and aroused all at the same time. There are plenty of things to consider, including:
-The level of submission desired. (How low will they go?)
-Physical posturing and Dress
-Commanding Vocal Presence
-Bondage gear and Sex Toys
-Atmosphere and setting the "scene."
If you’re Domming your male partner for the first time, take it slow. A bit of sissy play is a great way to get the ball rolling. Make him crawl and worship you like a Goddess. Gag him when he talks back and whip him when he dares to look you directly in the eyes. What level of sexual intimacy do you want to bring to your scene? Do you prefer to be addressed formally, as "Mistress?" Do you have a safe word worked out between the both of you? These are important details you’ll need to plan before you get started.
You can accentuate your control over him with riding crops, nipple clamps, blindfolds, cock and ball toys and even strap-on dildos. Tease his hot spots until he’s fully aroused and begging for more, then withold your touch. If you choose to have your pet serve you sexually, chastize him when he doesn't use the tempo or pressure you like. Give him a light slap or pull on his nipple clamps. Perhaps he needs a good paddling! A world of dark possibilities await. Where your scene leads is up to you!