Beginner's Bondage
Beginner's Bondage
Beginners' Bondage Gear: Time To Tie The Knot
It happened - bondage has finally gone mainstream. So, what’s in it for you besides bragging rights at dinner parties? More than you think. Done safely and with a little thought, BDSM can crank intimacy up to eleven, bringing couples closer than a Netflix binge ever could. Curious but cautious? We’ve got the best beginner-friendly bondage toys, soft cuffs, and accessories to sneak some kink into your bedroom… without anyone getting tied to a headboard (unless that's your thing.)
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"Comfortably in Control" Restraint & Position System
Creative Conceptions
$54.00Control Them. Comfortably. Because power hits harder when no one’s distracted by numb hands or angry furniture. The "Comfortably in Control" Restraint & Position System is built for people who like their bondage secure, flexible, and...$54.00 -
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Fifty Shades "Sweet Anticipation" Ankle Cuffs
Fifty Shades of Grey
Now: $42.00Was: $62.00Because Nothing Says ‘Wild Side’ Like Brocade and Boundaries. Ready to push your limits... luxuriously? These Sweet Anticipation Ankle Cuffs are what happens when BDSM meets a Pinterest board. Forget the clunky metal cuffs from your “we...Now: $42.00Was: $62.00 -
Whipsmart Bondage Tape
Xgen
$24.00 - $25.00Wrap Them Up. Improvise Everything. The easiest way to look like you know what you’re doing. Whipsmart's glossy bondage tape is made for people who want restraint without hardware, knots, or a crash course in rope theory. It sticks only to itself,...$24.00 - $25.00 -
Blackout Memory Foam Blindfold
Sportsheets
$19.99Find Pleasure in Surrender. When sight disappears, sensation takes over. Taking away sight is one of the simplest ways to shift power — and one of the most intoxicating. The Blackout Memory Foam Blindfold is designed to plunge your partner into...$19.99 -
Sportsheets Soft Cuffs
Sportsheets
$22.00Soft Where It Counts. Unforgiving Everywhere Else. Because comfort doesn’t mean mercy. These cuffs are proof that restraint doesn’t have to hurt to hit hard. Designed to replace cold metal with something far more wearable, they wrap wrists...$22.00 -
Bondage Love Pillow
XR Brands
$188.00At Ease! Your soft launch into restraint, comfort included. Curious about kink but not ready to go full dungeon? The Bedroom Bliss Bondage Love Pillow is designed for exactly that sweet spot — where comfort, positioning, and light restraint meet...$188.00 -
Sex & Mischief Knotty Brat Kit
Sportsheets
$34.00Go On. Make Them Behave. They’re not being difficult. They’re being adorable on purpose. This Sex & Mischief Knotty Brat Kit is for the sub who talks back, pushes buttons, and pretends they’re not begging for attention—while...$34.00 -
Sex & Mischief Adjustable Handcuffs
Sportsheets
$19.99Start Small. Get Bossy. Because someone has to give the orders—and it might as well be you. Sex & Mischief's Adjustable Handcuffs are made for people who are curious about control but not ready to go full dungeon just yet. Soft, flexible, and...$19.99 -
Sex & Mischief Leash & Collar
Sportsheets
$19.99Clip The Leash. Set The Tone. Because sometimes they just want to be told where to go. This collar and leash set is for curious couples who want to explore obedience play without going full role-play overhaul. It’s soft, comfortable, and...$19.99 -
"Make Me Melt" Hot Wax Candles
Icon Brands
$12.00Turn Their Skin Into a Canvas Drip. Shiver. Repeat. Wax play starts here. Want to get into wax play? Pour some fuel on the fire with our "Make Me Melt" Hot Wax Candles. Unlike conventional candles that can burn the skin, this paraffin wax melts at a...$12.00 -
Spartacus Pink Vegan Leather 3-Piece Bondage Kit
Spartacus Leather
$36.00Pretty. Pink. Absolutely Not Playing Around. Looks sweet. Holds up when things stop being cute. This set is for the brat who loves being admired—and the partner who knows that “cute” doesn’t mean fragile. Drenched in glossy...$36.00 -
Sex & Mischief BRAT Handcuffs
Sportsheets
$24.00Fine. Keep Talking. We’ll see how long that attitude lasts. These Sex & Mischief BRAT Handcuffs are made for those who test limits, push buttons, and absolutely love being told they’ve gone too far. The kind who roll their eyes, smirk...$24.00
Kink Isn’t Scary, It’s Sexy
BDSM might still have a “taboo” label slapped on it, but the truth? Couples and sex therapists are catching on: kink can actually make relationships healthier. The magic ingredients—Consent, Boundaries, Communication, and Connection—aren’t just BDSM perks—they’re relationship essentials. Curious but clueless? You’re in the right place.
At Tabutoys, we’ve got the best beginner bondage gear to help you dip your toes into kink without getting whiplash. And no, it’s not all chains and pain. Start small with light restraints, blindfolds, or tickle feathers to tease, tantalize, and push boundaries in surprising ways.
Pro tip: talk it out. BDSM is only hot when everyone’s on the same page. Have a conversation, set your limits, then let the fun begin.
Uncover the best bondage products for beginners at Tabutoys. We always ship discreetly for your peace of mind. And don’t worry, our customer service team is as friendly as they are unshockable, ready to help you find the new kinks you've been craving.